The Ego Trap :How It Holds Us Back

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Ego is a tricky thing. It convinces us we’re right when we’re actually stuck. It drowns out our inner voice, replacing wisdom with pride. It makes us hold grudges instead of hands.

When we let ego lead, our relationships become strained—built on defensiveness instead of honesty. We stop listening, stop learning, stop growing. We cling to our version of the story, even when it no longer serves us.

But what if we let go? What if we embraced humility, curiosity, and the uncomfortable truth that we don’t always have the answers?

That’s where real growth begins.

That’s where healing starts.

The ego fears change, but your soul craves it.

Which one will you listen to?

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